Erotic
Hypnosis
by hypnojoy (@hypnojoy on Discord, Bateworld, DudesNude, HypnosisForGuys and others)
You will have a hands free orgasm when I snap my fingers.
There are many myths around hypnosis, is it real or not, is it theatre or reality. Hypnosis is a technique that works. Far from being witchcraft or some sort of complete remote mind control, it is a collaboration between the tist —for hypnotist— and the subject —the person receiving the hypnosis— which allows the subject to be freed from their social and rational burdens.
As happens in Dom/sub scenarios, the hypnotist employs a series of exercises, tricks and techniques to lead —and care for— the subject. It is a joint challenge to generate a dream-like state of altered consciousness in which you might, to give some examples, be unable to move, only be able to make barking sounds or become closer to orgasm if you laugh.
It is highly liberating, healing and, obviously, very horny. That’s what got me hooked when I started hypnotizing guys online 15 years ago. I was surprised by how hot it was to remove their masks, stop their analytical minds for a while and free them of their own prejudices, allowing them to enjoy and connect with their sexuality without even being aware of it.
Hypnosis helps deactivate the voice that gets in the way of full sexual enjoyment. The one that asks if everything’s alright and completely ruins the whole experience. Shutting down that voice, the voice of consciousness, allows us to go into a trance where we might feel things in a new way, discover unexpected reactions in our bodies or simply to enjoy ourselves without overthinking.
I’ve discussed what hypnosis really is with many of my subjects and some tists. It’s also debated in academia and professional sectors. Despite the fact that it is not magic or roleplay, it is like executing a magic trick: it is much more interesting if you don’t obsess on how it works and instead let yourself be mesmerized by its effects. The trick might be real or fake, but it makes you feel and question things and it has the potential to surprise your rational structure of thought.
Reason isn’t always in charge. What we are and what we need are often better understood by our subconscious, especially in an intensely stigmatizing society. When it comes to sex and pleasure, we must allow for social stigma, fear, assumptions and performance expectations to fade away. We can melt those constraints away, at least temporarily, by deactivating what is considered “normal” or “rational” thinking.
Over the years I’ve encountered people asking: “Can you hypnotize me to turn me gay?”, my response is always the same: “Absolutely, 1, 2, 3 from now on you’re gay!”. And it works, because you allow them to transform into themselves, into what they desire to be even when they cannot or have not allowed it to themselves. Explicit demands always come with huge implicit needs and desires. Hypnosis can activate and unfold the implicit, whatever it may be.
These comments from guys I hypnotize regularly might help better understand what it is about:
“You have a gift of seeing beyond language, so you overcome the mind barriers that protect us from showing who we really are. Somehow you try to understand what people truly want.” — Marcos
“Erotic hypnosis has helped me connect in a very intimate way. It’s very similar to a mutual sexual interaction in which you allow parts of yourself that you might not show to others to be explored. With a trusted hypnotist, negative thoughts become still and leave the mind and, together, you explore the possibilities of pleasure that come from a safe and calm trance.” — Gabo
“Trance is a way to let myself go, relinquish control and relax within my own mind. It allows me to connect with my desire in a very genuine and organic way, which allows me to discover things I didn’t know turned me on as well as exploring and experiencing arousal from the body in new, very intense ways.” — Kombutcha
Relationships with my subjects are always based on care and respect. There are friends I’ve been hypnotizing for over a decade and, since I’ve started I’ve probably hypnotized over a thousand people. There are specialized websites (hypnosisforguys.com, https://hypno.nimja.com/) and related tags are increasingly popular all around the web. Keep in mind that, just as there is bad quality porn, there are many prerecorded audios and videos that stay on the surface or stereotype of what hypnosis is.
Advice: Don’t expect what will happen, that’s a preconception that has nothing to do with hypnosis. Be open to it and find the appropriate moment. Make sure your conscious and subconscious mind feel good with one another, that will allow you to let go and take on the full experience feeling safe and able to explore freely. Be patient and practice without rush, it might take some time to build the trust to let go. Let your subconscious surprise you, it might be more powerful than you believe. Get into an experimental mindset.
I can help you be amazed about how you can see your body cumming without hands, like you did sleeping when you were younger, and you know it’s incredibly true: You will have a hands free orgasm when I snap my fingers.
— hypnojoy (you can find me in discord, among other sites with the same nickname).
